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One Gone and Three to Go

Written by Suzanne Breistol

Published March 19, 2025

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Wow, the first quarter of 2025 is coming to an end, and LinkedIn currently lists 26,000 construction-related job openings across Florida.

I often talk about wishing we had a cloning machine to duplicate the hundreds of construction management professionals we’ve guided over the years and those who have taken control of their careers. We are thankful they first chose to work with us, and through this partnership, they’ve gained a deeper understanding of themselves. They embraced our proven, trademarked process, which not only helped them discover their unique style but also provided them with valuable tools to navigate daily challenges throughout their careers.

 

Why Planning Your Construction Career While Employed Gives You the Upper Hand

 

One of the questions I always hear from employed professionals and employers is, “How is the market right now?” Do you know who rarely asks this? Unemployed professionals. They already know the reality is that whether there are 2,000 or 26,000 openings, getting back to work to collect a paycheck is one thing, but finding a long-term career with the right company isn’t something you discover in the unemployment line. When paying the bills becomes the priority, the fastest and best offer often seems more attractive than it might if you had the time and flexibility to explore your options. When you plan your career while you are gainfully employed, you increase control of your career and can compare new opportunities with what opportunity you already have to ensure you are not leaving too soon and leaving opportunity at your current place of employment behind. Sometimes your employer request isn’t happening fast enough, but leaving too soon can result in a failed counteroffer.

 

The Hidden Risks of Accepting a Counteroffer in Construction Management

 

According to Stanton House data consulting services, counteroffers, where an employer proposes improved terms to retain an employee intending to resign, often provide only temporary solutions. Research indicates that a significant majority of employees who accept counteroffers eventually leave their current positions within a short period.​

For instance, data reveals that 80% of employees who accept a counteroffer depart within six months, and 90% leave within twelve months. This trend suggests that the underlying issues prompting the initial resignation often remain unresolved despite the counteroffer.​

Moreover, 57% of employers acknowledge that making counteroffers is not an optimal retention strategy. This perspective aligns with the observation that 50% of candidates who accept counteroffers from their current employer resume active job searching within 60 days. ​

Many times, counteroffers in construction management buy the employer enough time to get through a project or find a qualified replacement, but trust is lost. The statistics underscore the importance for employers and employees to address the root causes of job dissatisfaction rather than relying on resignations to open discussions leading to a possible short-term counteroffer.

 

Empowering Professionals to Take Charge of Their Construction Careers

 

At FLCC, our mission is to walk alongside professionals in the workplace who are eager to understand themselves better and take control of their careers. We help them identify their unique attributes and experiences, explore their career options, and build on opportunities that elevate their professional growth.

“The best guides are not those who show you the path but those who help you find your own.”
 – Author Unknown

Overcoming these three possible challenges will immediately impact the success of your career.

 

1.      Learning How To Answer Instead of Evading Questions You May Not Want To Answer

 

Learning how to answer instead of evading questions you may not want to answer is a valuable skill that requires self-awareness and confidence.

Depending on how you are wired, your past experiences, and your comfort level with confrontation or transparency, you may instinctively avoid direct responses to difficult questions. However, evasion can often create uncertainty, weaken trust, or lead to misinterpretation. Instead, developing the ability to acknowledge a question, provide a thoughtful response, and, when necessary, redirect the conversation with honesty and tact allows you to maintain control of the dialogue while preserving relationships and credibility.

The top opportunities in our industry are often awarded to the candidates who take the initiative, communicate effectively, and demonstrate technical expertise and leadership qualities. Employers seek professionals who not only have the right skills and experience but also show adaptability, problem-solving abilities, and a proactive approach to career growth. Those who invest in continuous learning, build strong industry relationships, and present themselves with confidence and clarity often stand out as the top contenders for the most sought-after roles. Developing this skill set starts on interview. We guide you on how to accentuate your positives, communicate your negatives, and remain authentic in the process.

 

2.      Challenging Behaviors You May Not Want To Acknowledge

 

It is far less common in today’s workforce, but in the early years, field managers would storm off job sites when something didn’t go their way. Other team members may lash out, and some may shut down completely, avoiding communication or accountability. While these reactions may feel justified in the moment, they can damage professional relationships, hinder career growth, and create unnecessary conflict. Recognizing and addressing these behaviors and what triggers them, whether defensiveness, impatience, or resistance to feedback, allows you to develop emotional intelligence, improve problem-solving skills, and build a reputation as a composed and effective leader. Growth comes from self-awareness and the willingness to adjust behaviors that may hold you back.

At FLCC, our trademarked career coaching and matchmaking process provides visual tools to help you identify when challenging behaviors surface in your conduct and how to shut them down before they escalate and hurt your working relationships and steadiness.

 

3.      Overcoming the Illusions You Are Living in the Workplace

 

In one extreme or another, construction managers either seem to think they are the best and know it all, or they lack self-esteem, not realizing what they do know and have to offer. Both mindsets can limit their careers. Overconfidence can lead to resistance to feedback and missed opportunities for growth, while self-doubt can prevent capable professionals from stepping up, taking initiative, and advancing their careers. The key is developing self-awareness: recognizing strengths without arrogance and identifying areas for improvement without self-criticism. By staying open to learning, seeking constructive feedback, and embracing challenges, you can break free from the illusion that either extreme creates and position yourself for long-term success.

 

Helping Construction Professionals Take Control of Their Careers

 

At FLCC, we help construction professionals break through these illusions by guiding them to define, distinguish, and develop their unique attributes. Through our proven, trademarked process, we assist individuals in understanding their strengths, identifying gaps, and positioning themselves for the right opportunities. By defining their core skills and professional value, distinguishing what sets them apart in the industry, and developing a strategy for continuous growth, we empower them to take control of their careers with confidence. Whether it’s through personalized career coaching, matchmaking with the right employers, or providing tools to navigate workplace challenges, we ensure they have the clarity and direction needed to build a fulfilling and sustainable career.

“A great guide is one who points the way but allows you to walk your own journey.”
– Author Unknown

 

Take Control of Your Construction Career Before Circumstances Do

 

One quarter of the year is already gone. The question is, Will the rest of 2025 be more of the same, or will you take control and get on your game?

The most successful construction management professionals don’t wait until they’re forced to make a move. They plan ahead, evaluate their options, and position themselves strategically before the pressure of necessity limits their choices. Whether you’re looking to solidify your current path or explore new opportunities, taking proactive steps now can make all the difference in where you stand at the end of the year.

At FLCC, we help you build a sustainable, fulfilling career by guiding you to define your strengths, distinguish your value, and develop your potential.

Call or text us at 305-361-0094 to learn how you and others can define, distinguish, and develop your Construction Management Career.

 

To Four Quarters That Really Add Up,

 

Suzanne Breistol

 

 

About Florida Construction Connection

 

At Florida Construction Connection (FLCC), we believe the strongest builds start with people. Since 2004, we’ve guided thousands of construction management professionals in aligning who they are with where they’re going, helping leaders make intentional career decisions and companies build sustainable teams. We’re not here to push roles or fill seats. We’re here to bring clarity, integrity, and strategy to your career journey, so that every project, company, and professional thrives.

Follow our blog or sign up for our newsletter for real-world insights grounded in decades of experience, and when the time is right, start a conversation with us about what alignment could mean for your career.

Who We Are

The Breistol Company is an industry‑rooted consulting and career alignment firm using verified information, track record, and experience to date to reduce risk for all sides when aligning people driven resources for company and project deliverables which strengthens outcomes across the construction industry.

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Who We Work With

We work with owners, developers, general contractors, specialty contractors, construction managers, and professionals across most market segments who want human‑capital decisions grounded in verified information and proven industry expertise rather than assumptions.

 

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